Thursday, September 25, 2008

Tomorrow I will be ONE!

Tomorrow I will be turning 1 year old.

 

I was born at 8:58am on the 26 September 2007.

 

I weighed 3,875g. Length: 52.5cm, and 36cm head circumference. My Apgar was 8 at 1 minute and 9 at five minutes.

 

Presently, I am crawling all over, I have 8 teeth (with another one popping out soon, I hope … that’s why I have a temperature tonight), I love pointing at everything, I love passing things to other people (especially food) and saying Da Da. I also say by by, and wave. I smile a lot, generally at everyone. I love being out. I love my baths with dad, swimming lessons, mommy and me lessons, kindermusik and clamber club. I like dogs from far, and I love cuddling in bed in the morning with mom and dad.

 

Mom is feeling very reflective tonight (seeing though this time last year she was lying in a hospital bed at the Kingsbury, trying to read books about babies, while she was being monitored and having very mild contractions).

 

So, I have decided to give her some blog space to be a bit mushy. Hit it Mom:

 

Hi All.

I can’t believe my little pumpkin will be one tomorrow. I know I will probably be saying the same thing when she turns 21 and then 30 etc etc.

Looking back, this year has been AMAZING. (Yes, there definitely has been the low days), but generally I have LOVED every moment of being ZaZa’s mom. Saying that, ZaZa is a baby that makes life very easy for you. Her magnetic, happy, inquisitive and content nature is incredible. P-G, we will share many more birthdays in health and happiness.

This is a post I should have written ages ago … so now is as good a time as ever.

This year has been a HUGE learning curve. No books tell you the tiny little things that you are ‘just supposed’ to know. So here are some of the things I (with a capital I) learnt this year, I am sure there are more. Hope this helps other new moms. Again- this was MY experience (In no particular order)LHope I read this before I have number two, P-G)

  1. ‘They’ give you loads of drugs when you have a Caesar and loads after … which results on you being totally out of it for at least two weeks
  2. The baby hormones you release in the first few weeks are incredible … I was totally hyperactive and on a high
  3. Life as a new mom can be lonely, arrange a new mommy group … to hear all about others births, sleeping patterns, feeding and pooing patterns … it is very comforting.
  4. The first few weeks, it feels like only you and your baby are in the world … it is amazing …
  5. Breastfeeding is Great, if you get it right and ask for LOADS of help from the lactation consultants and nurses.
  6. A baby sleeping on your chest, is the best thing in the entire world.
  7. You will forget how small your baba was … so (and I say this with regret), use measurements e.g. shoes, wine bottles
  8. Apparently when the mouth goes blue, and the tongue goes up, the baby needs a burp.
  9. Babies need to alternate which ear they sleep on
  10. You only need to wind a baby for about 2 minutes, if nothing comes out the mouth, it has gone in the other direction (I was winding as a form of exercise until Heather told me this)
  11. A dummy is a great invention (Thanks Estelle for popping it into ZaZa’s mouth on day 2)
  12. A dummy chain is a great invention
  13. Never microwave sterilise a honey dummy
  14. Nuk dummy’s rock!
  15. Invest in cotton granny panties after a Caesar.
  16. Surround yourself with telephone numbers of supportive people – THANKS to all my supportive people, you know who you are J
  17. Set boundaries before the birth … decide when and how many visitors you want
  18. Until about a month old, a baby does not need a bath every night.
  19. If breastfeeding, you need to be on call every two hours!
  20. Unless you are Heidi Klum, you don’t lose your baby weight when you leave the hospital – yes, you still need to wear maternity pants.
  21. Babies don’t need all the fancy things – only buy essentials on your first shop.
  22. First three months – babygrows, not fancy outfits
  23. A mom actually feels horrible when the baby is sick – sympathy pains.
  24. My love for ZaZa has grown more and more every day – if that is possible.
  25. Don’t listen to everyone
  26. Never say ‘I will NEVER do that’ – because, you probably will (hence, ZaZa is still sleeping in our bed).
  27. Babies start eating food at 6 months …
  28. Baby stimulation is important
  29. Moms groups are interesting and good to see that others are in the same boat …
  30. Babies do socialise with other babies
  31. Suppositories are the BEST!
  32. Sterimar is great
  33. Teething causes a high temperature and tons of other things … (runny poos)
  34. The texture of your hair changes after birth … mine is straighter
  35. Baby Bjorn and ErgoBaby are essential …
  36. Babies are great travel companions
  37. Babies can fit in with your life
  38. Stopping OT was the best decision
  39. Night time feeds are great snuggling and bonding time
  40. Motherhood come with a dose of guilt … especially being a Jewish Mom
  41. Braun Ear Thermometre is essential
  42. A baby changes your world and you … for the better J

 

Thanks you my gorgeous little Pumpkin, I have loved my year with you. Thank you Phil for giving me the opportunity to treasure and appreciate each moment with ZaZa.

To many more years, L’Chaim!

1 comment:

The Jackson Files said...

Happy birthday ZaZa and cograts Mom and Dad. I'm not Jewish, but I think a Mazal Tov might be appropriate here. Love Rebecca and Jackson xoxox